mdean4421 wrote:
Update 2: I re-checked the hatch area. There are actually 3 pumps vertical and one horizontal. I followed your advice about feeling it ( don't know why I didn't think of that). And it was the far pump standing vertical. I cut it off after filling the ballast bag and it stayed full! 
So now ive established the problem, I think I'm going to see if I can find an area to zip tie off or mount the hoses up higher. I think I will have to add more hose. I'll keep yall posted. 
Thanks for the help thus far!
Srsly man, you have the answer already.  Get a check valve.  Here's a link. 
https://www.wakemakers.com/marine-check-valve.htmlCut hose, put hose clamps on either side of the cut, insert check valve, tighten clamps, conquer the world.